This was the most amazing performance of American Idol this year and probably of every other year past! This kid is truly amazing, especially for his age. If you didn’t see this on Tuesday night take a few minutes and see it now. You won’t be disappointed!
Yesterday morning Steven and I were shocked to get the news that our friend Barb Terry had died. We had both worked with Barb at different times at USBank and we both considered her a friend. Her death was very sudden and very disturbing to both of us. She was 39 years old, a single mother of two (the youngest being only 8 months old) and she died from a blood clot that had developed in her knee, went undetected and ended up in her heart. They’re thinking that the blood clot was a development of her pregnancy with Joseph, and 8 months later it ended up killing her.
When Steven called me yesterday morning to tell me the news I just started shaking. It didn’t seem possible, it seemed like I had just seen her the other day. I immediately started thinking about her kids. Kaitlyn is 12 and is a total momma’s girl and Joseph is so little and still so dependent on her. My mind keep racing over what would happen to them now that their mother was gone! Then I started to think what if it was me? What if it was my kids that were left behind- yes they have their dad, but what if he was gone too? All of these thoughts are very depressing but something like this really makes you confront your own mortality, and it’s not a pretty picture.
We realized we don’t have a will, we don’t have nearly enough life insurance, we are not prepared for the inevitable end that has to come to all of us at some point but is still very elusive. So we will begin now to get our affairs in order starting with a will and a living will, funeral plans and getting more insurance. That way we know that our kids will be taken care of, and it will be done according to our wishes, and not decided by the courts after we are gone.
The other thing Barb’s death did was to put things in perspective. I, like others, can get very wrapped up in petty and unimportant things. I don’t want to do that. If tomorrow never comes I want my kids to remember me playing with them, not yelling at them, hugging them, not spanking them. I want my husband to remember the gentle side of me, not the nagging side that tends to come out when I’m frustrated with him. I want my friends and family to know that I love them and to not have to wonder when I’m gone. Yes all of this takes more work and we can’t always be perfect, but I want my family’s and friends memories to be good and happy.
Thanks Barb for waking us up! Thank you for your friendship. You were a great friend. You loved everybody and made people feel good about themselves. I just have to say- Barb, you rock!!!! We love you!
This weekend Steven and I attended the annual ski trip with a group of our friends. They started this about 12 or 15 years ago because several of them have birthdays in the month of February. So every President’s Day weekend we go up to Perfect North Slopes in Lawrenceberg, IN for the Saturday midnight ski. We ski from 9:00pm until 1:00am and just have a blast! Who would’ve thought that when I started dating my husband nine years ago that he would turn me into a skier, but he has and now it’s my favorite thing about winter. Granted we are talking about skiing down the side of hills in Indiana (albeit pretty big hills!) but you’ve got to start somewhere right?!?!? I hope to one day ski on a real mountain, maybe in Utah or Colorado or anywhere that’s not Indiana. But for right now I am perfectly content with navigating Far Side (our favorite trail), Backstage, Showtime, and Clyde’s Superslide. But even after 8 years I’ve yet to try out Center Stage, which is this hill right in the middle of all of the trails and is a straight drop. Well, it has some slope to it obviously but not quite enough for my taste. Maybe one day I’ll be brave enough to try it….then again, maybe not!
But it was really fun and I’m looking forward to doing it next February, if I don’t get to a real hill instead!
I have two of the funniest kids in the world! They make me laugh every day and every day I am so thankful that they are mine! Like I said, we’ve been starting to put things in boxes and packed away so that we can put the condo on the market (or have I mentioned yet that we’re moving?!?!?!). I was working in their room on Tuesday and just when I had everything clean and looking great here come the tornados! They can’t let anything stay clean for long, especially not their room. They got into the stuffed animal cabinet and dumped out all of the animals, and then spent a good 30 minutes playing in the cabinet. Bri shut Jonah inside and then Jonah shut Bri inside, and then they crawled in together. I’m kind of glad they had the idea though! Not only did it make for great pictures (that will eventually be totally cute scrapbook pages) but it prompted us to box up all of the animals and get them out of the way too! Thanks kids, for the laughs and all of your inspiration (whether it was intentional or not!!!!) I love you both so much!
That’s Brianna’s favorite phrase right now, “Come here, snuggle with me!”. She is quite the snuggle bug, especially when she’s tired. She’ll look at you and say “Let’s go snuggle” and you know in about 5 minutes she’s gonna be out.
Well, we did get the snow we were expecting, not quite 3-5 inches here but we definitely got the ice. Even NKU was delayed this morning so the roads must have been pretty nasty. Luckily I didn’t have to find out because my practicum school was closed so we slept in til 9:30! YEAH! I love snow days! (one more reason to be a teacher!!! Who else gets snow days?)
Oh and an update on our closets. We got our bedroom looking awesome and my job today is the kids room you know, since I’ve got a snow day. And then the hall closet and we’ll be ready to list! I’ll post pics when we’re done but so far I’m really proud of all the work we’ve done. Have a great day everyone! Stay safe wherever you are!
Our realtor stopped by yesterday afternoon to do a walk through of the condo and tell us what needs to be done to get it on the market. We knew we needed to do a few things (like shampoo the carpets) but we were thinking there’d be a lot more to do. He thought the carpets were the only thing we really needed to worry about. Well, that and cutting down on the clutter. He said that basically if we don’t use it every day it needs to be boxed up and moved out!!!!! WHAT?!?!?! Boy, do I have my work cut out for me! I am the queen of clutter so I am NOT looking forward to this! (But Big Lots already loves me since I spent almost $70 there yesterday buying rubbermaid totes for clothes and blankets!!!)
Yes, that is my wedding veil. (Don’t ask!!!)